Matthew 7: 1 Don’t condemn others, and God won’t condemn you. God will be as hard on you as you are on others! He will treat you exactly as you treat them.

You can see the speck in your friend’s eye, but you don’t notice the log in your own eye. How can you say, “My friend, let me take the speck out of your eye,” when you don’t see the log in your own eye? You’re nothing but show-offs! First, take the log out of your own eye. Then you can see how to take the speck out of your friend’s eye.

Whoever knows how to gloss over and disguise his deeds, does not want to accept other people’s decisions, is certainly not acting in the spirit of the love of the Almighty.
It is more honorable to accuse yourself and acquit your brother.
If you want to be endured, endure your neighbor too !!
Go inside yourself and realize that you are still far away from true love and humility, which no one is angry with and accuses no one except yourself.
There is no merit in living with good and gentle people, we all naturally enjoy that. Everyone loves their peace and prefers like-minded people.
But to be able to live with hostile people, with cranky, unbridled, harsh or even malicious people is a great mercy and worthy of all praise. He who can do an act of virtue.
He who is best able to suffer has deeper peace. He is victor over himself and ruler of the world, a friend of Christ and heir to the kingdom of heaven.